Gran and I Kept Finishing Each Other's Thoughts

My grandmother was the calmest person I have ever known, and the strangest, though she would have hated the word. She lived in a small house that always smelled of tea and beeswax, and from the time I was little the two of us shared a kind of shorthand that skipped words entirely.

I would walk in the door thinking about the ginger biscuits she kept in the blue tin, and she would already be reaching for it. She would be about to ask me to fetch her glasses and I would already be handing them over. My mother called it spooky. Gran called it paying attention. But it was more than attention, and both of us knew it, even if we only ever said so with a look.

The afternoon I want to tell you about was grey and pouring, the kind of rain that makes an old house feel like a ship. I was maybe nineteen, home from school, sitting across from her at the kitchen table while the kettle warmed. Neither of us was talking. I was watching the rain and my mind wandered to my grandfather, who had died before I was born, a man I only knew from photographs.

Without turning from the window, Gran said, he used to sit exactly where you are, on days like this, and complain that the rain got into his knee.

I had not said a word. I had been picturing him, wondering about him, and she answered the thought as plainly as if I had asked it out loud. I put my tea down. I asked her how she knew I was thinking about Grandad. She smiled that small smile of hers and said, because I was thinking of him too, and when you and I sit quiet long enough, the same thoughts come and sit down between us.